Do This Instead
Saints Sinners Soldiers
April 1, 2019
Rev. Gabe Sylvia
Paul teaches in 1 Corinthians 7:1–5 that sexual intimacy in marriage is a mutual, God‑ordained duty that combats sexual immorality, strengthens the marriage covenant, and supports the church's witness, with only limited, agreed prayerful abstinence allowed.
Summary
Drawing on 1 Corinthians 7:1–5, the sermon argues that sexual intimacy within marriage is not optional but a mutual obligation designed to resist temptation, uphold the marriage covenant, and protect the church's mission; spouses are called to pursue one another, using their bodies to serve and bring joy, with any temporary abstinence permitted only by mutual agreement, for a set time, and accompanied by prayer—recognizing also that personal baggage can hinder healthy sexual life and must be addressed in Christ.
Key Points
- Text: 1 Corinthians 7:1–5 frames the message.
- Main claim: Abstinence within marriage is generally not good because it tempts sexual immorality and violates the covenant.
- Purpose of marital sex: mutual service, joy, closeness, and a means to fight temptation.
- Mutual responsibility: spouses owe sexual intimacy to each other; authority is equal in the marriage vow.
- Limits on abstinence: only by mutual agreement, for a defined season, and with intentional prayer.
- Spiritual function: marital intimacy foils Satan’s attacks on individuals, marriages, and the church’s mission.
- Past baggage: unresolved issues can hinder healthy sexuality and must be addressed biblically and spiritually.
- Application: pursue your spouse, honor the covenant, and use marriage to glorify God.
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